ZSNES board

ok, i got as far as where im' suppossed to put the game and whatnot in

na, i'm talkign about this.. i'm on a router... my friend's in another state... we usually are able to connect, but i can't with a router... and the new setup at school, we can't use the modem without a router, so i'm screwed. i can't connect UDP because it wont detect it or something like that.. i ...

i can't seem to connect... can't find UDP, can't connect to host with TCP

please help

thanks