ZSNES board

His specs, he can play the game fine alone

MOD EDIT: DO NOT POST LINKS TO THE ROM OR ANY ROM SITES.

thats the rom were both using

We tried zbattle and just straight Internet>Enter IP

Neither worked.

Specs

AMD Dual Core Turion 2.2 Ghz, 2 gigs of RAM, 120 gig hard drive, 512 mb ATI Radeon x1600

I can play it alone fine

EDIT: Right when he loads the rom, the screen goes black and the emulator locks up

I've read and done everything, I forwarded my ports, turned off all firewalls, everything. So has my friend.

We can connect to each other, the chat box starts up, but when he loads a rom the screen locks up.

Any help?

EDIT: We use 1.36 btw

EDIT 2: We both have the exact same copy of the rom.